"Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." - Matthew 19:6

Wherefore
既然如此
they are no more twain,but one flesh.
夫妻不再是兩個人，而是合為一體的了
What therefore God hath joined together,
所以，神配合的
let not man put asunder.
人不能分開


On Nov 28th 2009 Sis make a life time commitment.
"I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live."

Joyce and Steven wish you both 百头携老.

心肝宝贝

又要为人母的心情......

心肝宝贝
凤飞飞

作词：李坤城/罗大佑　作曲：罗大佑

月娘光光挂天顶 嫦娥置那住
你是阮的掌上明珠 抱着金金看
看你度晬 看你收涎 看你底学行
看你会走 看你出世 相片一大塔
轻轻听着喘气声 心肝宝贝子
你是阮的幸福希望 斟酌给你晟
望你精光 望你知情 望你赶紧大
望你古锥 健康活泼 毋惊受风寒

鸟仔风筝 拢总会飞 到底为什么
鱼仔船只 拢是无脚 按怎会移位
日头出来 日头落山 日头对叨去
春天的花 爱吃的蜂 伊是置叨位

鸟仔有翅 风筝有线 才会天顶飞
鱼仔有尾 亲像行船 希望着爱找
日头出来 日头落山 日子拢按呢过
花谢花开 天暗天光 同款的问题

Uncle Joe's visit

My boss's boss's boss visited us yesterday and today. Beside group meeting and open forum we had a bowling session and a very nice dinner at 32 mansion with. My group was the first runner up for the bowling competition. After such a long time I still able to score 108 and 140 for the first 2 games. But for the third game which to determine the champion our group score drop like .............. I only manage to score 98 :P I enjoyed my self very much at the game.
Uncle's Joe visit had in a way boost the team moral after all the hard time and bad encounters that we had with "老细". I am still feeling like "汪洋中的一条废柴" and still no ideas on how to get my self out of it. I guess what i can do now is take a step at a time "一步一脚印".

First Swim

On June 6th, 2009 after Timothy woke up from his afternoon nap at around 4pm we brought him to CW Jie Jie place for his first ever swim. He was very excited with the view at CW Jie Jie apartment balcony at 5th floor which had a view of the guard house. I guess he really enjoy the site of cars going in and out of the apartment.
At around 5.30pm we brought him down to the pool side. He is okay playing at the entry to the pool where there is just water flowing down to both site of the swimming pool. When i tried to bring him deeper into the pool he started to yell for mama and papa and cling on to me like a koala bear.
Timothy basically enjoy playing in the pool and playing with water but just that he is still very cautious about floating on him own and cling on to me most of the time. We will need to bring him to the pool more often so that he can built up the scence of security and confident level :P
Looking forward to more pool time with Timothy :D

家

On May 17th 2009 with cheque no 434652 I make payment for the deposit of our first ever house. Will put in my 101% effort to turn it into our home sweet home.

鞋之风波

原本以为已被人偷的Crocs鞋，失而复得。照常理我应该非常的开心，感到幸运但我却非常的心疼，痛心。因为妹妹送我的Crocs鞋已经被野狗咬得遍体麟伤，我看了心真的很疼， 又无人可怪 。。。。。 哎 。。。。
事情的开始就从maid打家里时，好心做坏事的将我放在客厅的sports shoes 和 Crocs鞋放到屋外的鞋架。 我家因没钱所以走open concept路线，没有gate的。谁人及狗都可轻易的光临。我的Crocs右鞋就这样被路狗甲咬走了。路狗甲玩厌了我的Crocs右鞋就把它丢弃在MIL家附近。MIL以为我不要这鞋了，就索幸把Crocs左鞋也拿走了。把我的Crocs鞋当slipper般的在家里“粗穿“，我的天呀！！！！幸好BIL得知我疑失了鞋后在MIL家里看到了我的鞋，把它带回家了。要不然，我真的难以想像若是我亲眼看到我的Crocs鞋在MIL家里，我会怎样爆发。
我也因为此事与DH吵的很狠。我一爆发就又开始怨恨那间家。DH就会很自然的维护那间他最爱的家。我们就因此吵得天翻地伏，没完没了。
DH为了维护他的爱家，也为了安抚我， 就带我到QB买回一双Crocs给我。但不够狠心的我到了最后关头尽然买了iPanema 的sandals. 一双Crocs是足以购买三双iPanema还有balance。我也为baby Tim 买了一双的iPanema baby sandals，超可爱的。
希望这场鞋之风波就到此为止。

A rare gift from DH

DH is someone who is very realistic and thus flower is something which I don't get to be pampered with.
Last wednesday DH was back from KL and Cameron Highland for a business trip and due to that I received flowers after ............ If I recall correctly the last time I received flowers from DH is during our wedding which is 3 years back in 2007.
Lucky me :P

Car Seat

After endless rounds of heated argument and debating finally DH agreed to get baby Tim a forward facing car seat. On Feb 18th since both me and DH reached home early after work we decided to head to GP to get a car seat from Mother Care.

Initailly we plan to get Maxi Cosi for Mothercare Priori SPS or Mothercare Motion. We ended up getting baby Tim Mothercare Express which baby Tim loves to sit in it now :) I am worried that baby Tim will not like to be bounded to the car seat as the first rear facing car seat from anakku is a total failure.

At first he hesitated and cried for about 20 minutes when we strap him to the car seat for the first time. After that he seems to get the message that no matter how he struggle and cried the car seat is where he will be if we are travelling. Now he simply loves to car seat, whenever I open the car door for him he will quickly get him self into the seat and waiting there for me to buckle him. He falls asleep very easily in the seat if we travel a distance.

Behold the car seat that change our travel experience with baby Tim forever. Lets keep our finger cross and hope that things will be as it is with the car seat.

First step .....

A day before Chinese New Year on 25 Jan 2009 , Baby Tim stand on his own and also took his first step for the first time. I feel so grateful and proud. Start to walk at the age of 15 months is not consider to be fast nor too slow for a baby. For me as a mom as long as he start to walk that is sufficient enough for me to feel happy and glad.
As of today Feb 11 2009, Baby Tim is able to walk on his own for a short distance with his 2 hands open up as an act to balance him self. It's really very funny and warm to be able to witness your baby wobbling while trying to walk on his own.

2009 .... here i come

I'm always a bit late in setting my new year resolution :P

Looking back at 2008 resolution, I have basically completed all. Big clap to my self... well done to me .. BRAVO !!!!

But no worries late is better than never. Well here goes my resolution for 2009

1. Firm up and slim down my flabby arm

2. Save 10k by end of 2009 for my new car down payment

3. Get my self pregnant with my 2nd baby (try my best but this is all up to faith)

4. No more hunch back.

Watch out 2009 .... Here I come ..... 冲啊 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Get well soon .....

Baby Tim has been sick for close to 10 days now. It started with fever and sore throat and now cough and phlegm. He has loss weight as he is now only taking milk and no solid food. He also often vomited after taking milk if he happen to cough right after milk intake.
Son Son can you please get well soon .... mommy is worried sick
I felt so helpless as seeing son son condition but i can't really do much to make things better beside taking good care of him.

My first NIKE

Today I got my first pair of nike shoes. I bought it from zappos.com for USD 98 and ask a colleague who was on a business trip to Oregan to brought it back for me. Thanks her a lot :)
I like the shoes a lot but it is costly :P This is the most expensive shoes that I have bought so far. I am actually crazy for shoes but too bad I don't have the budget to buy lots of them :P

Happy FIRST birthday

10-Oct-2008, a year ago from this date a baby boy was force out of the mother's womb 6 weeks earlier from the expected delivery date.

He was born tiny at only 1.95kg and had to be put inside the incubator because he can't really breath that well. He also had a hard time learning up how to suck milk.

Timothy, mommy am sorry to have given you a bad starting point. Eventhough till today you are still small size compare to average.

May GOD bless you with health and laughter for the coming years in your life.

Always remember that Mommy Love you so much :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON !!!!

11 Months

Baby Tim is 11 mths old now.
Here is a quick update.

Taken on 12th Sept
Weight = 8.7Kg
Height =75cm
Teeth = 2 pearly whites on the lower incisor

Adaptability

Times flies ....
I have been working in "I" for 3 months already. I always made a statement that "I" is not the place for me as the culture there is totally not my style. This is proven when I attended a soft skills class to which it help individuals understand their styles and that of their team mates. From the survey questions one will get to know their Adapted Style and also Natural Style approach. Those who is having a different which is more than 35 between the 2 style is said to be under "EXTREME" pressure which is unhealthy. I am one of those who is under extreme pressure :P
In order to be able to survive in "I" i unconsciously change my personality but i view it from a positive angle as I am "Changing for the good" :)

Mind the GAP

Lately the gap between me and hubby is getting bigger and bigger. Maybe I should rephrase .... the different between us is poping out more and more. We are actually 2 person with veryX5 different personality. Our expectation and goals for life is like heaven and earth.
Things is getting worst lately after we had baby Tim. The way I plan to bring up my son is no wear close to what he have in mind. I believe that kids should be brought up with extra care and shower with lots lots of attention and love. But he think there is no need to go until that extend, just care for him like normal and he will grow up as well. He is someone who had experience studying and living in foreign land. How can he still have those "kolot" thinking of a china "apek" on how to take care of children.
Baby Tim is now taken care by my mom during my working hour. My mom is the person who i trust that will be able to take good care of my baby boy both physically and mentally. He is not happy about it as he wanted his mother to take care of baby tim instead. That will never happen as i don't agree with the ways MIL take care of baby, as like mother like son, MIL also having the same "cin cai" attitude when taking care of baby. We do bring baby tim back to MIL place during weekend for visit but hubby is still not happy as he said why can't i have enough trust towards MIL to leave baby tim with her 1 or 2 days. It's not that I bias towards my mom but just that we are having different standard and expectation.
Can't foresee any solutions for this issue in the near future. Haih ...... just leave it as it is for now. See how things goes from here ....
End of the sad part, now it's time for happy news. I have realize one of my resolution for 2008. I am now back for good to home sweet home. Now I get to see Baby Tim everyday ...yippie :)

New Year’s Resolution

Time flies … the first month of 2008 is already half gone. Even though it’s a bit late I guess I should also have a new year’s resolution. This year is going to be a tuff year for me as I’m still here while baby Tim (who I miss dearly) and the rest of the family are still back in hometown. Here goes…

1) Must decide whether will remain here or will go back to hometown. The main goal is to stay close to baby Tim :) If possible I don’t wanna miss out a single day of him growing up. Really hope that I will be able to settle down ASAP and no need to travel so often back to home town as it’s really tiring :(
2) Wanna shed of those extra pounds I have gain during pregnancy so that I can fit back to my nice nice Levi’s jeans and also those mini “T” :)

I’m simple who only wish for a simple life. So there will only be 2 resolution for me this year. Hopefully I will be able to achieve it.
Gambateh !!!

Timothy

Timothy -- 峻湶 came to us on October 12, 2007 at 1.22pm.
He came as a surprise as we wasn't expecting him for another 6 weeks.
It was just a regular check up but ended up being diagnose with pre-eclampsia and having a BP of 180/110. The BP was way to high and I was scheduled to have a c-section later in the afternoon once the gynae can bring the BP down to 130/90 with the help of medication eventhough Xiao B is still premature. If i were to get seizures then it would have been bad for both of us.
Luckily we are bless and eveything turn out to be fine. Xiao B is able to breath on his own even though he is having difficulty to be feed from the bottle and had to be feed by using a tube instead.Both of us stay in the hospital for about a week. I was allowed to go home when my BP went down to about 120/90. Xiao B came back 2 days after.
It has been 3 mths since and thank GOD that everthing is in good hand now.

A Name ....

Lately I have been thinking a lot for the most suitable name for Xiao B.
At the end the list is down to 2 ...
1 ) Isaac
2 ) Timothy
The christian name part is not that tuff. The most head ache part is the part to get the chinese name. At first I plan to name Xiao B 凯杰 as this 2 word have always been my favourite :) But later found out that there is already someone with this name at Xiao B's dad side of family. So after "N" times of pushing,nagging and demanding Xiao B dad finally came up with 宇?. But up until now we can't seems to be able to decide. But we have shortlisted a few ...
1) 轩
2) 旋
3) 翔
Decision ...decision ...decision
Xiao B dad seems to think that we should name Xiao B after he is born so that those "master" can calculate his name base on his time of birth but i don't really buy that :P For me a person are in control of his own life of course with guidance from the Lord :D
Will leave it as it is for now since we can't really make a decision. As what I keep on telling my self lately, since i can't do anything about it now i might as well enjoy what i have now. "Enjoy work, Enjoy pregnancy" :D
As per the gynae Xiao B haven't turn his head yet and I'm a bit worried. Pray that eveything will be fine :)

回家真好

上个周末.. 我,妹与 Xiao B 回家去了 :)
回家的感觉真好,吃得饱,睡得好。与家人共享天伦之乐。我也带Xiao B 去参与主的盛宴。希望Xiao B会感受到主对我们的爱。
星期六， 一大早我,Xiao B与他爸 就的到Gynaecologist 那儿因Xiao B 是时候近行检察了。等了将近三个小时才轮到我们，真是要命。人人都想为家里添“小金猪“的原故吧！我也做了Blood Test。Gynae也建意我们做多一个checking for Down Syndrome baby。但Xiao B他爸 说不须要，因不论结果是如何，Xiao B 还得来这世界。请天主保佑，Xiao B 健健康康！！
虽然在踏上来 K.L 的路程前，出了一些小拆曲。但all is good :)
Thank you GOD for all the blessing.