"Sensitive" ... "Avoid" ... this is the 2 words that come across my mind when "SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE" is in the discussion.
What can be worst when this question is direct to you by a priest !!! I went through that yesterday and I still haven't fully recovered from it till now.
I told the truth. Maybe I should have lied instead, but no, I choose to to tell the truth. Being honest and brave at the wrong timing. I was then directed with another question " So that will you do if you got pregnant?". Straight away I answered with a firm and loud voice " Gave birth to my baby of course. As both me and my fiancee are financially and mentally prepare to be parents. We are also a legal couple according to the law thus our baby is also legal as we have already registered." The priest then gave me a blank stare in return. I get dissapointed face + need to go for confession + no holy communion + no "S??" until our marriage by end of this year.
To tell the truth I don't really think that I had did anything that bad. As long as I am mature enough to be responsible for every act that I took and am fully aware of the consequences, then it should be okay.
But still I have to go by the rules from now on as I am the one who choose to have a church marriage. It did cross my mind to not go ahead with it but if I choose to do so then I will really ended up hurting some one heart. Which I really don't want to do so .....
Have I really did something that BAD ??? Am I really that sinful ???
