最近的我

发现最近的我已没有將孩子们排在第一位。而是学会了多爱自己，留多些时间给自已找会回自我。
并不知道该视这转变为'好'还是'坏'？
从好的方面看。。。我比以前健康+快乐多了。多了自我的时间可以与姐妹淘聊聊天，逛逛街，吃吃饭。心情开朗多了，没感觉那么压迫，感觉世界宽阔了，美好了。与老温斗嘴的次数也大大的减少了。因家庭与小孩已不再是我的所有一切。
从不好的方面看。。。与孩子相处的时间少了。小孩们也不再那么粘我。他们学会了没有妈妈也可完成事情。妈妈也会因小孩耽误了妈妈的'my time' 而对孩子们发皮气。孩子们已不再参与妈妈的所有活动。
妈妈也为自已通过网上及偶而在任务与任务之间偷偷挤一些时间做一点quick shopping 为自已败了还蛮多的战利品。

就跟大家分享战利品徘行榜 。。。呵呵呵

四人行@情人节

 简简单单的情人节晚餐，有小孩们的父母若想罗漫地克是非常困难。我们俩通常也没特别庆祝，也就帶着小不点，小曼頭一起吃晚餐了。观顾了大家都爱吃的'千拉面'

今世与前世情人

     

牛肉拉面， 桂花柠檬甜品

爸爸出游记

每一年的年尾，爸爸的如果sales hit 到target 都会参与公司的年度company trip。今年爸爸又开开心心的出游到欧洲了。

妹妹上学啦

Misunderstanding +  Misinterpretation ， 我们家小妹妹在11月19日开始了她第一天的读书生涯。
误会的开始是我一为保姆会在11月尾荣升婆婆，就没时间看顾妹妹了。所以就决定为她找间適和的Nursery. 刚好家的隔一条街开了一间新的3Q幼儿园.
后来才知道，原来保姆的息妇12月尾才会生小孩，但保名费给了，学费也给了所以就说让妹美上一个月的假期营，之后才把妹妹送回保姆那。

11月19日一早，妈妈与妹妹就浩浩荡荡起身准备上学了。妹妹的第一天上学记比起哥哥真的好多了。不赖床，不哭也不闹，赞赞赞！！！话说回来，妈妈还真有点失落，因以准备好要陪妹妹， 可是妹妹一到学校， 一个bye bye, 就把妈妈送回家了。

Timothy first trophy presentation

Nowadays pre-school kids also have very grand graduation and prize giving ceremony. 
On Nov 11 2012 the whole family attended Timothy school graduation cum prize giving ceremony @ USM ....wah ...grand right :)

We reached USM about 9.30am and the hall is already fill with kids, parents and teachers. The whole area was nicely decorated with balloons and a kids play area was also set up with RM3 per entry. Hannah was so tempted to go but Papa said it's very hot so no one get to try out the play area.

We proceed to the main hall on the second floor and join in the graduation of the K2 student. It's very heart warming for the opening ceremony where the kids presented flowers and song to their parents and as usual i ended up with tears in my eye. Things started to get bored when they start the scroll presentation and we leave to take a walk and look at the art work by the kids exhibited below.  

 At about 10.30am we gathered at the hall at the ground floor we 哥哥 need to report him self for the trophy presentation later. 哥哥 ended up crying very badly when parents were ask to leave the kids with the teacher and move to the hall at the second hall. Haih .... when is this little baby of mine is going to grow up and be mature.

哥哥 get the trophy for "Academic top achiever", although it's kinda like "分猪肉，人人有份“ so all kids also get to participate but as a mother i also 有一点点暗爽。In a parents eye, their kids is always the best right ? :)

哥哥五岁生日

最近有差觉到哥哥真的长大了。虽然还是那么的爱哭，但说起话来已经有文有路，比较懂性了。
跟随一家之主的作风，家里不会大型的庆祝节日。哥哥的生日也是吃顿饭和生日蛋糕而以。
问他要什么蛋糕，哥哥要求 Ben-10 蛋糕。妈妈我当然对儿子有求必应☺但是120大元的 Ben-10 蛋糕在到达家之后一打开，原本站立的阿Ben已经倒下了。连头秃都保不住掉了下来，真是残不忍睹。爸爸与妈妈还因这吵了一轮。之后用筷子硬把阿Ben撑了起来。还好Birthday Boy 不介义

Birthday boy 要求要吃pizza，但因為前往seberang jaya domino pizza 的路段不知为何非常堵车。我们改到Autocity Sakae Sushi 用晚餐。寿星哥哥还是吃的很开心。

晚餐后，回到家里唱生日歌，吃生日蛋糕后，哥哥简单的生日庆祝节目就结束了。

妈妈的small baby,妈妈祝你生日快乐，身体健康，快高长大，每天都可以开开心心的过。

2011 Raya Holiday

Raya holiday fall Saturday and Sunday so replacement is on Monday and Tuesday , a long long holiday for us. Since having kids long holidays = fun no longer valid. Long holidays means having to take care of the 2 angels 24 hours on my own = tiring
Shouldn't complain as another few more years from now they will not wanna spend time with me even if I wanna to so must cherish and treasure all this moments .... 感恩吖！
The kids love to play with water especially 小曼頭 so we decided to go for a day trip at batu  ferinnggi beach. KK and CW join in as well so that we get to share the cost of renting a room in Bayview Beach Resort.
The kids have a great time playing in the pool and by the beach. Having their friend Ferris and Olivia to play together is definitely a plus. As for the parents as long as the kids is Happy we are HAPPY :)

小馒头之怪僻记

家中小妹妹从一岁半开始至今就有了一个怪僻, 噹噹噹噹 。。那就是爱睡倒凌晨三点钟就爬起身。玩乐一番后才愿睡觉。真的是顶她不顺。爸爸，妈妈也因为这吵了不知多少遍。因须天天起身陪小馒头真是很难受。骂也骂了，打也打了，但小馒头还真是一位有立场的小妞。不睡就是不睡，像足妈妈有性格，何和何和 。。。

真是拿她没辨法，唯有相信这只是个过度期。小馒头时间到了就会把怪僻给扔掉。

以下就是小馒头晚上不睡觉，白天送去Aunty家时就大睡特睡。。。气死我了!!!!

p/s : 当post这blog时小馒头一把怪僻给扔掉了好一阵子，感恩啊:)

iBaby

这年代的baby小小年纪就会用iPad , iPhone , smartPhone 及一些high end 的products.
我们家小馒头，小不点也是点行的 i 发烧友. 他们最爱的就是看you tube. Below are the lists of what they normally watch
1. Hello Kitty
2. Mr Bean cartoon
3. Cars
 4. Thomas and Friend
虽然这不是一个健康的活动但非常有效。吵吵吵但iPhone 一到就马上安静. 到目前为止还没打算停止他们但会慢慢的加入restriction.
小不点可称是上隐，一有空档就机不离手，如过没阻止会没完没了。但有时兄妹俩一起玩的时候还真可爱到，忍不住就卡拆卡拆了好多张。与大家分享一下......

  

没花没礼物的情人节

不知是不是年纪也有了，人也老了。一起吃一个简单的午餐，一起看一场平凡不过的电影，我已过了一个非常开心的情人节。

Uncle Bob 从来都不是一位浪漫的男人，生日，结婚周年，etc 周年 我们都不会有特别的庆祝　:(　但凡事都要往好的一方看，Uncle Bob　还是有很多优点的。嫁鸡随鸡，嫁狗随狗 建建的我从一位童话故事里的公主变成活在现实世界的黄脸婆。可喜的是黄脸婆有了一对小王子 & 小公主。那麽童话故事就可以继续下去了 ^.^

感恩， 希望来年的情人节也会温馨 + 快乐 ^^

 

Hmmm .............

Really dunno what to write as I'm lost for word, life have been kinda chaotic and merely surviving. Let's do a list of how life is now to start with 


1) Hannah is already one year old on May 21, 2011. We had a small celebration for her just within the family member. Happy Birthday my dear princess, hope that you grow up to be a healthy and happy little girl :) Mama Love you

2) Timothy started school already since Jan 2011. So far I do see positive improvement in him although his progress is slow. It's okay my son, we take one step at a time.
3) Have a lot of quarrel with mom & DH since the beginning of the year. It's really tiring and i really don't know what to do except just go with the flow. Everything is kinda out of control. TIRING and PAIN is what i have to say about all this. Thank GOD things have gotten better since a month ago.
4)I'm officially 31 years old. Not much to say about my birthday this year and not hoping for anything also. Glad that my dear sis is back on the week of my birthday and DH did bought a cake and a pair or earing as birthday gift for me. It really mean a lot to me, thanks again DH :)
5)Our home sweet home or should i call it as my home sweet home finally will start renovation today. Buying a house also have bring a lot of endless debate and argument between me and DH. Tiring and heart breaking is the word for it.
6)Hannah roll down from our dining hall to the living room yesterday and i'm feel very very very bad about that. Should not have left her with Ah Mah, should have just carry her to make her milk. Mama is so sorry Hannah and God please take care of Hannah so that there is no permanent damage to her for that fall. I promise that i will take extra extra attention and care towards Hannah from now on.

好久不见

以经好长一段时间没来这儿了，到处都仆满了尘埃，今天就来打扫打扫

这段时间我的生活也有了很大的变化， 就让我一一的把它列下吧

1。天主很爱我，祂给了我一位建康， 可爱，长的很像我的小公主。很感恩呀！

2。第一次有对我很重要的长辈离开的我们。

Kong Chor 我想你现在是在一个无病无痛的地方不必再受病魔的折磨

3。我已开始了compress work week 的工作时间，公共假期已于我无关

放工时间到，就打扫 到这。送上一张我家美美小公主的照片

"Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate." - Matthew 19:6

Wherefore
既然如此
they are no more twain,but one flesh.
夫妻不再是兩個人，而是合為一體的了
What therefore God hath joined together,
所以，神配合的
let not man put asunder.
人不能分開


On Nov 28th 2009 Sis make a life time commitment.
"I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live."

Joyce and Steven wish you both 百头携老.

心肝宝贝

又要为人母的心情......

心肝宝贝
凤飞飞

作词：李坤城/罗大佑　作曲：罗大佑

月娘光光挂天顶 嫦娥置那住
你是阮的掌上明珠 抱着金金看
看你度晬 看你收涎 看你底学行
看你会走 看你出世 相片一大塔
轻轻听着喘气声 心肝宝贝子
你是阮的幸福希望 斟酌给你晟
望你精光 望你知情 望你赶紧大
望你古锥 健康活泼 毋惊受风寒

鸟仔风筝 拢总会飞 到底为什么
鱼仔船只 拢是无脚 按怎会移位
日头出来 日头落山 日头对叨去
春天的花 爱吃的蜂 伊是置叨位

鸟仔有翅 风筝有线 才会天顶飞
鱼仔有尾 亲像行船 希望着爱找
日头出来 日头落山 日子拢按呢过
花谢花开 天暗天光 同款的问题

Uncle Joe's visit

My boss's boss's boss visited us yesterday and today. Beside group meeting and open forum we had a bowling session and a very nice dinner at 32 mansion with. My group was the first runner up for the bowling competition. After such a long time I still able to score 108 and 140 for the first 2 games. But for the third game which to determine the champion our group score drop like .............. I only manage to score 98 :P I enjoyed my self very much at the game.
Uncle's Joe visit had in a way boost the team moral after all the hard time and bad encounters that we had with "老细". I am still feeling like "汪洋中的一条废柴" and still no ideas on how to get my self out of it. I guess what i can do now is take a step at a time "一步一脚印".

First Swim

On June 6th, 2009 after Timothy woke up from his afternoon nap at around 4pm we brought him to CW Jie Jie place for his first ever swim. He was very excited with the view at CW Jie Jie apartment balcony at 5th floor which had a view of the guard house. I guess he really enjoy the site of cars going in and out of the apartment.
At around 5.30pm we brought him down to the pool side. He is okay playing at the entry to the pool where there is just water flowing down to both site of the swimming pool. When i tried to bring him deeper into the pool he started to yell for mama and papa and cling on to me like a koala bear.
Timothy basically enjoy playing in the pool and playing with water but just that he is still very cautious about floating on him own and cling on to me most of the time. We will need to bring him to the pool more often so that he can built up the scence of security and confident level :P
Looking forward to more pool time with Timothy :D

家

On May 17th 2009 with cheque no 434652 I make payment for the deposit of our first ever house. Will put in my 101% effort to turn it into our home sweet home.

鞋之风波

原本以为已被人偷的Crocs鞋，失而复得。照常理我应该非常的开心，感到幸运但我却非常的心疼，痛心。因为妹妹送我的Crocs鞋已经被野狗咬得遍体麟伤，我看了心真的很疼， 又无人可怪 。。。。。 哎 。。。。
事情的开始就从maid打家里时，好心做坏事的将我放在客厅的sports shoes 和 Crocs鞋放到屋外的鞋架。 我家因没钱所以走open concept路线，没有gate的。谁人及狗都可轻易的光临。我的Crocs右鞋就这样被路狗甲咬走了。路狗甲玩厌了我的Crocs右鞋就把它丢弃在MIL家附近。MIL以为我不要这鞋了，就索幸把Crocs左鞋也拿走了。把我的Crocs鞋当slipper般的在家里“粗穿“，我的天呀！！！！幸好BIL得知我疑失了鞋后在MIL家里看到了我的鞋，把它带回家了。要不然，我真的难以想像若是我亲眼看到我的Crocs鞋在MIL家里，我会怎样爆发。
我也因为此事与DH吵的很狠。我一爆发就又开始怨恨那间家。DH就会很自然的维护那间他最爱的家。我们就因此吵得天翻地伏，没完没了。
DH为了维护他的爱家，也为了安抚我， 就带我到QB买回一双Crocs给我。但不够狠心的我到了最后关头尽然买了iPanema 的sandals. 一双Crocs是足以购买三双iPanema还有balance。我也为baby Tim 买了一双的iPanema baby sandals，超可爱的。
希望这场鞋之风波就到此为止。

A rare gift from DH

DH is someone who is very realistic and thus flower is something which I don't get to be pampered with.
Last wednesday DH was back from KL and Cameron Highland for a business trip and due to that I received flowers after ............ If I recall correctly the last time I received flowers from DH is during our wedding which is 3 years back in 2007.
Lucky me :P

Car Seat

After endless rounds of heated argument and debating finally DH agreed to get baby Tim a forward facing car seat. On Feb 18th since both me and DH reached home early after work we decided to head to GP to get a car seat from Mother Care.

Initailly we plan to get Maxi Cosi for Mothercare Priori SPS or Mothercare Motion. We ended up getting baby Tim Mothercare Express which baby Tim loves to sit in it now :) I am worried that baby Tim will not like to be bounded to the car seat as the first rear facing car seat from anakku is a total failure.

At first he hesitated and cried for about 20 minutes when we strap him to the car seat for the first time. After that he seems to get the message that no matter how he struggle and cried the car seat is where he will be if we are travelling. Now he simply loves to car seat, whenever I open the car door for him he will quickly get him self into the seat and waiting there for me to buckle him. He falls asleep very easily in the seat if we travel a distance.

Behold the car seat that change our travel experience with baby Tim forever. Lets keep our finger cross and hope that things will be as it is with the car seat.